It's not so much of a claim as it is a counter-claim. The implicit claim is that we just have the sexuality that we have and there's nothing we can do about this, and the counter-claim is, "Okay but can you prove it?" Can you prove that my sexuality can't be as good on a day-to-day basis as it was at its literal peak, when I was like 14 or 16 or whatever? Can you prove I can't just change my fetishes around when I want to? Where's the rule that says this? I'm not sure why this standpoint is con…