Have you had a positive interaction with a woman at the gym… — bitchan

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Have you had a positive interaction with a woman at the gym? This could include flirting but I more mean a more general/less relationshippy/more bro-like thing, like genuinely asking what you're doing, asking for a spot/form check, etc

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𓀐 @tESb=JAE: >walking up and talking to a girl im 2027-1+ 1

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𓀐 @b6eDdTSw: >leaning in >demonstrating zero value before approaching anons, says it with me, "you cannot approach tens without demonstrating higher value first."+

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𓀐 @M_GZuW2s: bro, these zoomettes can't stop thirsting for my cock. I was bench pressing and this slut glanced at me for 1 full second. I could tell she couldn't stop thinking what it would be like to sit on my face and have her fertile eggs bathed in my chunky whey protein filled baby batter. Another time, a girl approached me and said "Excuse me" and grabbed a kettlebell from the kettlebell rack I was doing deadlifts in front of. I could see the exact second her steamy pussy lips drenched like the niagara falls. I literally can't stop winning.+

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𓀐 @zz4E8i~Y: If she didn't want to be stared at the why did she make a stupid tiktok video where the point of it is for everyone to literally just stare at her much love from Kazakhstan+

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𓀐 @Y5rR+Waz: So I’m 34 and i met this 23 year old today at my gym. I went today with the strategy that if a girl is working out on Sunday morning it means they skipped Halloween parties last night. So i started chatting this 23 year old Greek girl and i was asking her some questions about her apple watch and stuff and we started chatting throughout our workout here and there and at the end I asked for her insta and she gave it to me and she also mentioned that she makes awesome banana bread with 1.2k on the whole cake. I didn't have the balls to ask her to make it for me at the time but it's a good opener to ask her through dm's right? We were both neutral and i didn't wanna escalate at the gym but when the gym was about to close she was waiting for me to say goodbye to her or something like that. She also drives manual. Should i date her? Btw my mom and my sister told me that i'm too old for her and i should get on with my sisters best friend who is 37, i somehow believed them because women don't want something bad to happen to me right?+ 2

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𓀐 @os_=toT-: >Btw my mom and my sister told me that i'm too old for her NEVER listen to women's advice on dating women. It's well established that intrasexual competition means women give terrible advice to men, even within their own family. Hair stylists give intentionally worse advice to pretty women, and pretty women benefit hugely from omitting a picture from their resume when applying for jobs.+

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𓀐 @9=+2_LhP: it's the piss easiest opener, yeah. just chat her up and then eventually mention that the banana bread she talked about sounds great, and then decide where you want to go from there - asking her to show you how to make it, asking her to bring some to the gym so you can have a snack together afterwards while you bring something to drink, whatever. something that fits you personally. worst thing she will do is make up some excuses for why she doesn't have any time for that or doesn't want to eat after a workout or whatever if she's not interested and then you just drop it. > Btw my mom and my sister told me that i'm too old for her don't listen to other women when it comes to dating advice, kek if you get along with her, then the younger she is, the better. you're only 11 years apart, that's not that much at your age.+

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𓀐 @HFqeth5W: Is it against the rules to put on some clothes?+ 3

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𓀐 @M38CtdE=: She dresses like that to make handsome Chads look at her, not average guys+ 2

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𓀐 @HiiisVhZ: Don't take women seriously.+ 1

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𓀐 @qBhiC?Ax: you have to understand them or you'll get taken advantage of+

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𓀐 @fo6fDXQ8: Bitch, that IS "saying hello". Men communicate by looks and gestures. If a guy wa slooking at me like that, I'd have to go over and say "sorry, bro, Im straight." It's that obvious. Jesus.+

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𓀐 @_TqU96nW: Whats funny is that both these girls are jewish+ 1

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𓀐 @2fL6yQ9~: They arent jewish, they just arent White. a LOT of browns think theyre White because theyre not vanta black swarthoids. American culture has tricked a lot of mystery meats with Italian or Spanish heritage on their father's side into thinking theyre White. If you dont have blue eyes, the inability to tan, red hair, blonde hair, hazel, or a specifically Nordic phenotype, YOURE NOT WHITE. Youre not White. a lot of these whores are shitskins who think theyre White women. If its not bubblegum pink, youre a shitskin monkey and should go back to africa+

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𓀐 @sboad7Sg: i hit on a girl at the gym that was like an alt goth slut that you could tell was an easy fuck. she was on her phone the entire time in the gym, and I eventually was like fuck it ill go say hi. Anyways, i talked to her about music then asked for her number, and got it, and texted her later. she waited 24 hours to text me back (remember she was on her phone THE ENTIRE 1 HOUR in the gym while on the cardio bike), and she said "Hey sorry I just saw this, I can't meet up because I'm really busy with university and work" and I replied "No worries, was nice meeting you" and then she replied right away again "Yeah I'm just really sorry that i can't meet because I'm so busy" now I should have left it at that but of course im like lmao fucking stupid cunt wants me to play her game. So anyways, I sperged out, and said "while I appreciate your apology for not being able to do the me courtesy of meeting me, i'll think i'll be alright" and she replied "what the fuck?" and then I said "Tell you what, if you apologize to me for being such a fucking cunt, MAYBE i'll still fuck you" to which she never responded+ 3

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𓀐 @9N3=Xu9b: the most mentally stable /fit/ poster+

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𓀐 @FYAnF-Wz: I blew so many easy lays in my 20s because I couldn't just patiently invest the minimum and let the games slide by me. You weren't going to wife that anyway, what harm in playing it cool?+

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𓀐 @ZJeivsMH: Been there. There was this really hot girl in my social circle, she was apparently quite awkward and shy but she got mutual friends to introduce us, so we ended up talking outside this bar. She said I was too drunk to take home (I think she either doesn't drink or barely drinks) but she gave me her number. Next day I texted her to see if she wanted to meet up and she left me on read. After about an hour I sent "I'm heading out if you want to meet up otherwise you can keep blatantly ignoring me" and she came back like "wtf? I was getting ready for a party and didn't have time to reply yet" and I never replied after that. So that's the story about how I fumbled the hottest girl who's ever shown interest in me. Tbh I have fumbled a lot of girls due to my insecurity. In hindsight I could have easily saved that by playing it off as a joke but I was too butthurt to think of it.+

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𓀐 @JXAJ7s*J: >racist is also a pedophile Woah…+

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𓀐 @fmqRg=nW: I actively avoid even getting near a woman in the gym let alone talk to one. Always go in with an oversized hoodie and over ear headphones without even playing any music most of the time, literally just wear them so no one ever talks to me. Strategically go to the gym only when I know I can do all my sets without anyone in the way. 8 years in the gym never spoke a single word with anyone+

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𓀐 @rQnyxfTt: The decline of men approaching women functions like a political shock even when nobody frames it that way. It reshapes family formation. Fewer approaches mean fewer relationships, later marriages, lower birth rates, and accelerating demographic decline. That feeds directly into labor shortages, pension stress, immigration politics, and generational conflict. Governments can pass incentives but they cannot legislate attraction or courage. Second, it polarizes gender politics. Many women interpret non-approach as disinterest or resentment while many men experience it as rational risk avoidance shaped by social sanction, economic precarity, and fear of misreading norms. Each side builds narratives about the other and political movements harvest those grievances. Third, it weakens informal social trust. Approaching a stranger used to be a low-level civic act that trained people to tolerate rejection, ambiguity, and difference. When that disappears, people retreat into apps, algorithms, and identity-filtered spaces which harden group boundaries and reduce empathy. Fourth, it shifts power to platforms and institutions. Dating apps, HR departments, and legal frameworks mediate intimacy that used to be negotiated face to face. That concentrates cultural authority in systems optimized for liability management and profit, not human bonding. Finally, it produces downstream radicalization. Large populations of unattached men historically correlate with instability, withdrawal, or extremist politics. Most do not become violent but many disengage from civic life, work, and optimism itself which is politically corrosive.+

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𓀐 @92?b5~Ls: Built like a fridge+

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𓀐 @fE8JLYvB: >I'll get back to you whenever the fuck it's convenient That's fair if you just don't open the message. Opening it, reading it and not responding is going to read as not giving a shit rather than not having time. If you have time to read, why not respond? >eh dude that is pure desperation No, I was mad that she ignored me. It was 10 years ago though so no I wouldn't do it again. >just write them once and if they don't reply, that's on them. That's what I would do now. You have a point at them not being able to ignore insults/aggro. Even to the point they say and do incomprehensible things to "restore honour". I listened to a girl at a party explaining how she used to fuck this guy and he thought he was rocking her world but she actually didn't enjoy it at all, as if the fact she didn't enjoy it was a victory somehow. I really don't get how that's a win, he got what he wanted and she put up with it. When I asked I was told "sometimes a woman has sex because she wants a hug" or something by another woman. Incomprehensible people.+

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𓀐 @sRWbL*WP: Actual White women are generally sweeter and nicer and have lower body counts. It’s these shitskin women who dye their hair to mimic Whites who are whoring it up at 200+ guys and hate men.+

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