Both genders are having less sex imo Plafulness is that you are playful. Girls can play with you. You're fun. Playing is when you're an active participant, like a moron. A girl plays with you and you actively go along and play with them back. The latter is repulsive to me. The hierarchy usually goes Man > Woman > Children, so if a kid wants to play with you, do you go "OK, let's play!" or do you go "sure, what do you want to do?" Likewise, imagine if you saw a woman actively playing with childr…