Factually wrong. That is the definition of an ephebophile or a hebephile. Pedophilia is attraction to pre-teens, which makes no sense biologically. While being attracted to teenage girls (post-menarche obviously) is the most normal thing from a biological standpoint, since they can produce offspring. It is only us humans putting such labels on it. And for the question of what do I have common with her, I do not care about that. You do not need to have many things in common with the person you w…