I'm pretty fucked atm. I'm 31 and I've been talking with a girl since june, she is 28. We met through a christian app, so we shared the same values. We are both from the same country but we lived in different cities, everything was going great, we spoke hours daily, and we connected super well. She moved to another country a few months ago but things stayed the same, I traveled there in September and we met for the first time, things were good but sex wasnt the best, I just thought that it was becouse it was the first time having sex together and nothing else. After I came back home, I noticed that things were different, we didnt talk as much and things were colder, I told her that, and at first she told me she was just busy, but after I kept insisting she told me that she simply didn't find me attractive. That shit broke me, as I said before we met through an app and we had a lot of videocalls. she told me that she finds me handsome but she's used to being with guys that are way more athletic and have a better body. I'm 1,81cm and 90kg so I know I'm fat and I should lose weight, but I legit thoght se was the one, and even worse is she telling me that she likes everything about me but she can't fall for a guy whose body she doesn't like. I understand having physical preferences, I'm the first that would have a hard time dating a girl I don't find attractive, but thats something I would realise early stages not after all this time, and having the connection we had. I feel like shit lads.

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