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𓀐 @XMZQe*m~: got a networking event and a happy hour that i'm going to this week. also round 1 of an interview on Thursday, with two other potential interviews this week or next. nothing has changed at my current job, if anything just more signs that the clock is ticking. just honestly dont know what to bother doing anymore at work. had a request for internal job shot down almost immediately. other than that, things are going pretty well. gave blood today, my workouts seem to be progressing nicely. still pu…+

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𓀐 @M=H*+QWh: Still homeless, still in a shelter. Still waiting on longer term housing. I'm gonna more aggressively look for work now as I'm getting fed up of waiting around. Tho if they have me stay at my current shelter to help out it might conflict. But then it'll almost certainly take a while to find work in modern america even if it is just entry level which is prolly the best shot I have for finding anything in any reasonable time frame, not to mention I really dont wanna work an office job. Lifting is…+

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𓀐 @_BK7CTL3: I TALKED WITH HER. quick one set of 5min talking to woman. During class teacher was doing something and she leaned in near me. Head very close my chest oh yea one spray naxos nice smell. I kept it lowkey as much as my autism allowed idk i think it went okay. Next lesson i try to talk more. When she said see you next lesson. I replied with i hope and then she laughed. Positive or negative. I decided to talk to woman to increase my charisma points. Imagine exp gained from talking to attractive yo…+

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𓀐 @Xd~cFroM: >be me >28 >I’ve sexed some girls before, some of them fairly attractive >extremely high libido as in I get random erections throughout the day and feel horny quite frequently, but sometimes when I’m with a girl I can’t get hard because of anxiety, but was able to fuck maybe 70% of the gorls I’ve slept with >don’t really care about the other 30% who I couldn’t fuck because couldn’t get hard >start going out with the most attractive girl by far I’ve ever dated about 2 months ago >this weekend an…+

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𓀐 @FfP-FAuC: I cant even fathom whats going on with dating these days. Like i dont understand how is it possible that average chick has hundreds of options while average guy has none. I cant wrap my head around it. Like bro there is roughly equal amount of men and women in the world. So HOW THE FUCK is dating so swayed in woman's favour. Just the other day i saw some chick, she was even older, like 30, bragging about getting 400 adds on social media overnight. 400 overnight like man what the fuck man. Like…+

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𓀐 @S5Q5ab~5: I love my gf very much but I think I have retroactive jealousy. I'm 26m, was khv zero previous partners when we met 6 months ago but we've had sex and I'm really happy she's my first everything. I however am not her first partner. I get triggered with obsessive thoughts when her ex is brought up and I hate having these thoughts. She also recently mentioned going on several dates (nothing sexual) from dating apps after they broke up, but before meeting me, we met at work. She has since deleted t…+

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𓀐 @tknk8is6: I wrote in this thread a while ago saying that I was a 30yo virgin and that I was unsure whether to pursue an obese chick who seemed to like me, well in time I realized that I really like her and now she's my gf. Before we had sex I told her that it was my first time and she didn't mind, I couldn't even get fully hard because of of performance anxiety lol so I basically just fingered her a bunch, but the next time my little fella worked properly and we fucked properly and all is good in the wor…+

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𓀐 @vcNGheSe: lowest point in my life right now. met this women over the summer, lets call her cindy. we instantly hit it off, both attracted to each other, went on dates. then her ex bf found out she moved on. shit got messy and we started becoming on and off, i ended up befriending her brother through all this. few days ago we decide to go play darts. someone invited this new girl named haley. we end up being a team and instantly start to vibe, giving each other those looks, bunch of stuff in common. event…+

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𓀐 @9B*?HDG=: I fantasize about shoving my entire face into the ass cracks of all these beautiful women in the gym wearing leggings. I find it hard - if not impossible - to believe that there will be bad odours in there.+

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𓀐 @FsV-GWRM: I didnt binge eat at all. Stuck to my calorie goal and going to a new gym today. Wgmi+

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𓀐 @gv8Yom*b: Recently started dating a girl that's head over heels for me. Feels really nice but I can't help but feel like I'm going to break up with her soon. Idk if it's because she's overweight (I think I can change that but idk) or if it's something else I can't detect. Pretty frustrating since I don't normally get girls that are this into me.+

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𓀐 @UVYLf~qt: I want to be loved by everyone+

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𓀐 @+sbUBCxb: How to max the sexy man lines?+

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𓀐 @UR+N4=ik: make what+

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𓀐 @XMZQe*m~: got a networking event and a happy hour that i'm going to this week. also round 1 of an interview on Thursday, with two other potential interviews this week or next. nothing has changed at my current job, if anything just more signs that the clock is ticking. just honestly dont know what to bother doing anymore at work. had a request for internal job shot down almost immediately. other than that, things are going pretty well. gave blood today, my workouts seem to be progressing nicely. still pushing through cardio. goals this week - nail the interview(s) and go to at least one of the happy hours/networking events. continue studying using my own material. do what i can at work until they stop paying me. continue to market apps.+

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𓀐 @M=H*+QWh: Still homeless, still in a shelter. Still waiting on longer term housing. I'm gonna more aggressively look for work now as I'm getting fed up of waiting around. Tho if they have me stay at my current shelter to help out it might conflict. But then it'll almost certainly take a while to find work in modern america even if it is just entry level which is prolly the best shot I have for finding anything in any reasonable time frame, not to mention I really dont wanna work an office job. Lifting is going good, I seem to still be gaining strength and presumably muscle albeit slowly. I do feel down sometimes and reading /fit/ has me on edge about aging up from my mid 20s as they make it seem like if you don't have it down sooner than later, you end up settling for the second best or only get a consolation prize for life. Mediocre work, mediocre free time, physique. A mediocre social life and a mediocre girlfriend. Does not inspire confidence.+

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𓀐 @F2_j_*cs: slept 4 hours, still have to do evening work according to my planning it is pull day... what do snooze early or gym? I think I know the answer, I just need to hear it from somebody else.+

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𓀐 @8Pw~Van?: What are your jobs?+

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𓀐 @iRMLE37w: Got a date this Friday. Even if it doesn’t go well, I’m glad to get more experience. I need to avoid wizarddom+

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𓀐 @3UJuWwuh: Thinking about quitting my job and becoming a flight attendant. Not even sure if I'll stay at that but I think it'll be fun potentially. I'm in my early 30s and I'm fine with the idea of not knowing what the future holds now. I felt like a failure for not being able to find a career that I can stand and constantly hopping around but now I just want to live a life I don't regret instead of one I think will impress others.+

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𓀐 @9iMmu?a2: I'm not a woman, but since it's a woman dominated field that's another bonus+

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𓀐 @_BK7CTL3: I TALKED WITH HER. quick one set of 5min talking to woman. During class teacher was doing something and she leaned in near me. Head very close my chest oh yea one spray naxos nice smell. I kept it lowkey as much as my autism allowed idk i think it went okay. Next lesson i try to talk more. When she said see you next lesson. I replied with i hope and then she laughed. Positive or negative. I decided to talk to woman to increase my charisma points. Imagine exp gained from talking to attractive young girl. Shes most beautiful one and im only fit person in class. Im getting more positive attention but im very autistic and confused so i try to learn how to do this right. I find myself a huge loser.+

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𓀐 @sCCBMYp?: I feel so profoundly terrible with a feeling I can't name and at the same time I feel like I don't feel anything. A scary thought came through my head where I thought that even if I had many of the things I want to have they wouldn't make me feel better.+

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𓀐 @j5xTEKZK: I got so dizzy after benchpress today that I lost my balance when I stood up and had to hold the cage pillar to not fall over. Obviously I stopped the workout and ate some dates and drank water, but what in the FUCK was that? I hate cutting so much. I think it's a combination of not drinking enough, not eating enough, and no proper warm up other than a single plateless set. I guess I'm getting old and need to babysit myself every single day and do long warmups.+

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𓀐 @4n=dkfKG: What are your opinions on lifting while on a hard cut? Do you maintain your regiment while simply expecting progress to stall or slow? Do you change your routine, reps, sets or amount of days lifting?+

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𓀐 @Xd~cFroM: >be me >28 >I’ve sexed some girls before, some of them fairly attractive >extremely high libido as in I get random erections throughout the day and feel horny quite frequently, but sometimes when I’m with a girl I can’t get hard because of anxiety, but was able to fuck maybe 70% of the gorls I’ve slept with >don’t really care about the other 30% who I couldn’t fuck because couldn’t get hard >start going out with the most attractive girl by far I’ve ever dated about 2 months ago >this weekend and last weekend we tried having sex multiple times, I made her cum twice but I can’t get hard >wanna kms because she’s so fucking hot and I really wanna fuck her, but I can’t get out of my own head >I’m still seeing another girl who is cute but not nearly as attractive as this other girl, but with her I get hard as soon as she walks through my doorstep and I can fuck her multiple times in one night I just failed to get an erection again with the really attractive girl and I couldn’t fuck her again. She says it’s fine but I’m worried she will get tired of it and leave me. Blogpost, I know, but I need to get this off my chest my niggers. Any lifts for this feel?+

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𓀐 @FfP-FAuC: I cant even fathom whats going on with dating these days. Like i dont understand how is it possible that average chick has hundreds of options while average guy has none. I cant wrap my head around it. Like bro there is roughly equal amount of men and women in the world. So HOW THE FUCK is dating so swayed in woman's favour. Just the other day i saw some chick, she was even older, like 30, bragging about getting 400 adds on social media overnight. 400 overnight like man what the fuck man. Like how is that even possible. The only logical explanation i have is that women are desirable say 18-30 y/o but with men the windows a bit wider so in theory for a girl you are "competing" with wider group of men age-wise so lets say theres 1 chick 18-30 y/o for every 2 guys 18-45 y/o But thats just 2 in 1 ratio which doesnt explain the actual 100 to 1 if not 1000 to 1 ratio in real life. Like women these days do not have to tolerate any percieved shortcoming in partner, be it height, humor, money, hair, looks, intelligence, they can just find another guy that fits all the criteria cause they have so many lined up. How the fuck does it work? Is it some kind of manufactured shortage?+

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𓀐 @jQF3f?g+: Anal-anon here. I know you all missed me (right...?). Had some health problems the last few weeks. Kind of still going on, maybe coming out of it now. Still trying (for anal), still hungry (for booty), still dragging myself forward little by little (towards the backdoor). I think it's going to be a long, hard winter for me. Oh well. I'll give up the dream when I'm dead. Until then...+ 2

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𓀐 @kNeNB~bW: Good for you. My progress had stalled. >massage candle sex >she’s extremely high orgasm threshold, takes a lot of work, quite frequently have to finish by fingering >never had a clitoral orgasm >try adding a finger on the butthole to push her over the edge >too much lubrication from the candle, it slowly works its way in all the way >fireworks >next time miss and stick my tongue up there when aiming for the other orifice >she pauses, we have a conversation about being more gentle, about her not…+

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𓀐 @kNeNB~bW: Good for you. My progress had stalled. >massage candle sex >she’s extremely high orgasm threshold, takes a lot of work, quite frequently have to finish by fingering >never had a clitoral orgasm >try adding a finger on the butthole to push her over the edge >too much lubrication from the candle, it slowly works its way in all the way >fireworks >next time miss and stick my tongue up there when aiming for the other orifice >she pauses, we have a conversation about being more gentle, about her not having that experience >during the same sex session when doing the whole “whispering in her ear” she admits that she wants to try but I have to be way more gentle and gradual No more fingers, we’ll go shopping for toys instead. Maybe a set of plugs with different sizes. Maybe a remote controlled one. And buckets of silicone-based lube, no more of that oil-based candle shit.+

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𓀐 @S5Q5ab~5: I love my gf very much but I think I have retroactive jealousy. I'm 26m, was khv zero previous partners when we met 6 months ago but we've had sex and I'm really happy she's my first everything. I however am not her first partner. I get triggered with obsessive thoughts when her ex is brought up and I hate having these thoughts. She also recently mentioned going on several dates (nothing sexual) from dating apps after they broke up, but before meeting me, we met at work. She has since deleted the apps after meeting me and she keeps reassuring me that sees a future with me and is committed. I know these thoughts are irrational, but right now I just feel like the next man in line. I didn't exactly describe it that way to her, I said I got the ick after hearing that because she's a girl lol, but she now feels like she has to walk on eggshells around me which I don't want her to do. How do I: a) make her feel safe being open about her experiences b)be secure in myself when she does mention the past+

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𓀐 @tknk8is6: I wrote in this thread a while ago saying that I was a 30yo virgin and that I was unsure whether to pursue an obese chick who seemed to like me, well in time I realized that I really like her and now she's my gf. Before we had sex I told her that it was my first time and she didn't mind, I couldn't even get fully hard because of of performance anxiety lol so I basically just fingered her a bunch, but the next time my little fella worked properly and we fucked properly and all is good in the world. That was yesterday, 'tis a good monday today.+

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𓀐 @vcNGheSe: lowest point in my life right now. met this women over the summer, lets call her cindy. we instantly hit it off, both attracted to each other, went on dates. then her ex bf found out she moved on. shit got messy and we started becoming on and off, i ended up befriending her brother through all this. few days ago we decide to go play darts. someone invited this new girl named haley. we end up being a team and instantly start to vibe, giving each other those looks, bunch of stuff in common. eventually we start talking about our relationship problems and cindy gets mentioned. haley casually mentions cindy is her aunty and we ask each other our age. she is 19 and im 36. we laugh at the age gap and say we are only dart partners. night goes on me, haley and one of the brothers end up at haleys house, everyone wanted to stop drinking but us 3. the brother passes out on the couch. so me and haley go sleep in her huge king size bed. one things leads to another we end up fucking for hours. and again in the morning. then it sets in that she fucked someone way older than her, and i realize i fucked my gf/ex-gfs niece. looking back, as soon as haley said that was her aunty i immediately seen the resemblance. they both looked at me like this. haven't talked to cindy yet and i dont think nobody knows...yet.+

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